Navigating an Autism Diagnosis: What Parents Need to Know

Monday, February 24th, 2025

Receiving an autism diagnosis for your child can feel overwhelming. You may experience a mix of emotions—relief in finally having answers, worry about the unknown, and uncertainty about what to do next. If you’re at the beginning of this journey, know that you are not alone. With the right support, education, and advocacy, you can empower yourself to help your child thrive. Here’s what you need to know as you navigate these early stages.

1. Understanding the Diagnosis

Autism is a neurotype and children who are Autistic may often have challenges in communication, social interactions, sensory processing, and behavior. No two autistic individuals are the same, and strengths and challenges will vary. Everything you have learned or think you know about Autism, throw it out the window!  It’s important to remember that autism is not something to be “fixed” but rather understood and supported. Taking time to learn about neurodiversity and embracing your child’s unique way of experiencing the world can make a big difference.

2. Processing Your Emotions

Every parent reacts differently to an autism diagnosis, and that’s okay. Allow yourself to process your feelings without guilt. Seek support from trusted family members, friends, or parent groups who understand what you’re going through. Connecting with other parents of autistic children can provide comfort and insight. But, always remember, your child is not the same as every other Autistic child. 

3. Early Intervention is Key

Research shows that early support and intervention can make a significant difference in a child’s development. Look for therapists and professionals who follow neuroaffirming practices and focus on supporting your child’s communication, sensory needs, and overall well-being. If you are in the St. petersburg area, we are here to help! If you are in Florida and looking for coaching and support, we got you covered too!

4. Finding the Right Support Team

Early intervention is key, and having a team of knowledgeable professionals can help guide you. Depending on your child’s needs, your support team may include:

• Speech-Language Pathologists (SLPs) to support communication development, including AAC (Augmentative and Alternative Communication). 

• Occupational Therapists (OTs) to assist with sensory processing and daily living skills.

• Developmental Pediatricians & Psychologists to provide ongoing assessments and recommendations.

• Support Groups & Parent Coaches to help you navigate challenges and advocate effectively.

• Providers trained in working with autistic children who are Gestalt Language Processors (Please see our previous blog post for more information!)

5. Look Into Multimodal Communication For Your Child

Many (but not all) autistic children have challenges in verbal communication. It's important to remember that expressive language does not just mean speaking. We communicate in all different ways, including speech,  gestures, signs, sounds, echolalia (repeating phrases), or through AAC. It’s essential to support all forms of communication rather than focusing solely on verbal speech. Providing access to AAC tools, such as picture communication systems or speech-generating devices, can open up new opportunities for connection and expression. Every child, no matter how young can benefit from AAC. 

6. Supporting Your Child at Home

• Follow Their Lead: Observe your child’s interests and join them in their world rather than expecting them to adapt to yours.

• Model Communication: Whether your child uses speech, AAC, gestures, or a mix of communication methods, modeling language in natural interactions throughout the day can help improve their communication skills. 

• Create Predictable Routines: Structure and routines can help children feel safe and supported.

• Prioritize Connection: Your relationship with your child is more important than any therapy or intervention. Prioritize your child and work toward understanding how they view the world not have we can make them "fit" into this world we live in. 

6. Seeking Guidance Through Consultation

If you are feeling unsure of where to start or need help understanding your child’s communication and sensory needs, I offer parent consultation sessions tailored to families just starting their journey. Together, we can discuss:

• How to support your child’s communication development

• Understanding Gestalt Language Processing (GLP) if applicable

• Navigating early intervention services and therapy options

To schedule a consultation, fill out a contact request form on our website to set up an appointment.

Final Thoughts

Your child is the same awesome person they were before the diagnosis. With knowledge, support, and a focus on connection, you can help them. Trust yourself, celebrate and lean into your child’s strengths, and remember you are the best advocate for your child.